Everything Feels Uncertain—Here’s How to Hold Your Ground and Stay Unshaken

Everything Feels Uncertain

Everything Feels Uncertain—Here’s How to Hold Your Ground and Stay Unshaken

There’s a shift happening. A reckoning.

The world is loud right now—louder than usual. The headlines crash in like storm waves. The economy, politics, war, climate disasters—it all presses in, demanding our attention, demanding we react. And if you’re a woman in perimenopause, it’s not just the world outside that feels uncertain.

Your body is also rewriting the rules. What once felt predictable—your energy, your moods, your sleep, your focus—now feels like a moving target. A personal season of uncertainty layered on top of global instability.

No wonder your nervous system is on high alert. No wonder the anxiety feels heavier. No wonder you want to retreat, numb out, or just make it all stop for a little while.

But here’s the thing: this is not the time to stick our heads in the sand.

Not because we should carry the weight of the world on our backs, but because now—more than ever—we need to be steady, grounded, and adaptable.

Why Midlife Women Feel This More Deeply

It’s not just in your head. Women in midlife are particularly activated by the world’s current volatility because we are thinking about retirement, security, and stability. We’ve spent decades building something—our careers, our families, our sense of self—and now, we’re looking ahead, trying to make sure what we’ve built will last.

But the uncertainty of the world makes everything feel fragile. The plans we’ve made, the numbers we’ve crunched, the future we’ve envisioned—it’s all subject to forces beyond our control.

And then there’s perimenopause, layering uncertainty on top of uncertainty. Our bodies demand a different pace. Our emotions demand deeper care. The ways we’ve “pushed through” in the past? They no longer work.

So how do we stand strong in a world that feels like shifting sand? How do we remain steady in the face of both personal and collective transition?

A Different Way to Engage with the World

This is not about disengaging. It’s about engaging differently—in ways that protect our nervous systems, preserve our energy, and allow us to show up for ourselves and others without crumbling.

  • Reconsider how you consume information

    If the news feels like an assault on your nervous system, change how you receive it. Reading the news rather than watching it gives you full control over what you take in and the quantities you consume. Be discerning. Ask yourself, Is this actually helping me make a smart choice, or is it just making me spiral?

  • Examine who you surround yourself with

    Some people thrive in fear. They spread panic, they catastrophize, they pull you into their vortex of worst-case scenarios. And sometimes, those people are the ones we thought were our safe space—family, close friends. Your nervous system cannot withstand pervasive, rhetoric rooted in unhealed trauma. You can hold compassion for others without drowning in their fear.

  • Anchor into what is certain

    This is not the first time you’ve faced uncertainty. Reflect on times in your life when everything felt upended but worked out just fine. Let your past resilience remind you of your strength. What you’ve built within you is not fragile.

  • Come back to your body

    When everything outside of you feels unstable, return to the one place you can control: your own breath, your own movement, your own care. Slow walks, deep exhales, grounding rituals, warm tea. These are not luxuries. They are survival tools.

  • Do your inner work

    If there is ever a time to commit to healing, to self-reflection, to processing unhealed wounds, it’s now. The world needs more people who are clear, who are stable, who are capable of holding space for themselves and others without spiraling into fear. And that starts with us.

This is Not the Time to Withdraw. It’s the Time to Strengthen.

The world is going to keep shifting. That is a given. But we get to decide who we are in the midst of it.

Women in midlife have a unique power—we are the bridge between generations. We have the ability to guide, to steady, to remind people that we’ve seen uncertainty before, and we know how to move through it with wisdom, not fear.

So, no. We don’t stick our heads in the sand.

We root down. We steady ourselves. We take care of what’s within our control so we can navigate what’s beyond it.

Because now, more than ever, the world doesn’t need more people lost in fear. It needs us—clear, strong, and deeply grounded in who we are. If you’re craving more meaningful conversations like this, come join us in the Wild Woman Collective—a calm, judgment-free space where you can connect, feel supported, and truly be heard.

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